Meet the Dahlia. With it’s depth and wide face it fills out arrangements and bouquets with character. Coming in a range of rich saturated colors as well as variegated yellows and pinks, it’s a breath of fresh air in the standard wedding lineup. And going by some of the meanings ascribed to the different colors, you couldn’t find a more appropriate flower to include in your celebration.
I don’t think this needs a whole lot of introduction, except that we’re glad Train is getting the attention and airplay they are due, because they are a really good band. And this is a really sweet song. Thanks, as always, to Wedinator for keeping us current as to the silliest and the goopiest of all the wedding memes. Take a look, and a listen, and go kiss someone you love, married or not!
If the invitation says "no gifts, please," bringing a gift anyway is not good form.
Today we’ll address a guest issue from the Bride’s perspective – but all you guests-to-be out there listen up! Spare the bride and groom some trouble (see below) and play along. On to the question.
Q: Hi My Little Etiquette Shop,
We are going with “no gifts” at our wedding. In my experience some guests bring gifts anyway, and those who don’t feel very uncomfortable. Can this be avoided?
-testing out of the gifted program
A: Testy,
The short answer is no. People bring gifts because they love you. You cannot (nor would you want to) change that. You can, however, plan to handle these items so as not to inspire guilt in those who have correctly followed the presence not presents protocol. 1) Do not have any tables near the front of the space that could be used for gifts. 2) Assign someone you trust, and that people know (college aged is ideal) to be outside the entrance to intercept possible packages. Make sure he/she has a boutonniere or corsage so that Aunt Eunice doesn’t think there’s a tuxedoed bandit in the parking lot of First Unitarian Church. Have your helper bring things to an established (safe) place. Ta da! No sign of gifts = no guilt.
Note to guests: “no gifts” = no gifts. It does not mean “Oh they don’t really mean that.”
Happy Fourth everyone! Flowers are safer than fireworks, FYI.
