As kids, time moves like molasses. Between birthdays was an eternity! When weddings are scheduled far in advance, they seem far away (sometimes literally)– but this is grown up stuff folks- the months will slip through your fingers like sand.
The trick is to keep the kid in you alive! Remember how special it was to anticipate your birthday party, and try to embrace that feeling over the stress of details and family nonsense. Remember- you’re doing all of this to marry the love of your life! And it’s going to be amazing.
Be well, and love well.