Q: Should I invite my ex-boyfriend to my wedding? I made a point of staying friends with all my exes through the years precisely so we could all “get along” at an event like this.
A: Here’s the thing. When it comes to post break-up relationships, there are two kinds of people:the Keep In Touchers and the Never See Againers. You are quite clearly a Keep In Toucher. So, the question becomes. Where does your man fall? I have a feeling he’s on Team Never See Again, otherwise you would not be writing, you’d be putting together the perfect “singles table” of all your exes. As a longtime player on Tean NSA, I advise that if that’s the case to let this one drop. Your man will be a hundred times happier on the big day, and that will show. After you get settled in to married life, have a barbeque for the old crowd. Lower the stakes over the steaks, get it?
Be well, and love well.
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